Guide

Questions to ask

A first conversation is easier if you do not have to invent the questions in the moment. This list is a starting point, not a script, and it is not medical advice.

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• Who would be my main contact, and how do I reach the team after hours or on a weekend?
• How often does a nurse usually visit, and what would change if symptoms became harder to manage?
• If care would be at home, what do you need a family member or other caregiver to do?
• If the person lives in a nursing home or assisted living community, how do you work with that facility’s staff?
• Do you have an inpatient setting, and when is it used? What would a short inpatient stay mean for us?
• Which medicines, equipment, and supplies would you provide, and what might we still have to arrange?
• How do you handle pain, shortness of breath, and restlessness? Who decides when a plan should change?
• What support is available for the family, including spiritual care if we want it, and grief support later?
• If we have Medicare, Medicaid, or private insurance, what should we expect to be billed for — including room and board, if a facility is involved?
• Are you currently licensed in Texas, and may we look you up on TULIP and, if you are Medicare-certified, on Medicare.gov?
• Do you offer a palliative care program that is separate from hospice? (The Texas license list does not say.)
• If our goals change, how would we stop hospice or get a second opinion?